Will I Ever Get Married?
Ash-shaykh ʿAmmār al-Ḥawbānī: The Prophet ﷺ said: "O young people, whoever among you is able to marry should marry, and whoever cannot should fast, for it is a restraint for him". Do not preoccupy yourself with what you do not currently possess. If you are not yet married and you do not have the means or ability, do not burden your heart with it. Do not let it consume your attention. Seek knowledge, and goodness will certainly come to you, by the permission of Allāh. How many people sought knowledge while not owning a single coin, yet Allāh opened doors for them through knowledge itself. People began competing for them, even rushing to arrange marriage for them, as was seen in Dammaj. And how many at the beginning of their path desired marriage, but when they were unable, they turned fully to seeking knowledge. They had no wealth, and not even the knowledge that would make others aspire to them. Then, after learning and understanding the religion, they became prominent figur...